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Abby begins exhibiting peculiar behavior: “On the very first day of 2012, Abby began disappearing” (75). Stem picks up his three boys and can’t find Abby. Neither Red (who’s now hard of hearing) nor the boys know where she is. Red mentions an incident Abby had while driving one of the boys (Petey) and thinks they should sell her car. Though the family searches everywhere, they later find her sitting on her bed. She apologizes for not hearing them, but something seems off. “There was something contrived and stagey in her posture, as if she had hastily scrambled into place when she heard their steps on the stairs” (81). As time progresses, Abby’s demeanor changes as well. She takes on a fretful, forgetful expression, and she even throws out her idea box, once a prized object, without remorse. She also begins calling their dog, Brenda, by their dead dog’s name: Clarence. Though 72, her family reasons that she can’t have Alzheimer’s.
Red has a heart attack in May. When his children ask him to retire, he refuses. He does begin wearing hearing aids, though he hates them to the point of never using them. Red starts slacking off with the house’s upkeep. Though Red is 74, he’s always taken extreme pride in the house. The children think Abby and Red shouldn’t live alone, so they hold a family meeting (minus Denny). The possibility of a retirement community is brought up, but Abby and Red take offense. They can’t dream of living in a planned community, and they don’t want to sell their house. Though their kids promise to look after it, Red admonishes them: “‘Houses need humans,’ Red said, ‘You all should know that”’ (92). A live-in maid, Mrs. Gilbert, is hired briefly, but when she and Abby don’t get along, she’s let go.
Stem and his wife Nora move into the house on Bouton Road after Abby’s discovered wandering the street aimlessly in her robe without Red noticing. In time, Nora takes command of daily life, including meals. She’s graceful without trying and is described as “a beautiful woman who didn’t know she was beautiful” (97). Oddly (to Abby), she calls Stem by his real name: Douglas. When the family (minus Denny) has dinner one night, Denny calls. He’s upset that no one asked him to move in, which everyone finds both amusing and annoying. He’ll arrive home later that night, and he asks for a ride. He ends the call by saying that Stem isn’t technically a Whitshank.
Stem isn’t in fact a blood relative. His father, a man named Lawrence O’Brien, or Lonesome, used to work for Red. Because Lonesome’s wife left him, he brings Douglas, a small, silent child, to work every day. One day, Lonesome’s appendix ruptures and he’s hospitalized, leaving Red with Douglas. Abby brings Douglas home until Lonesome recovers. Red later discovers that Lonesome has died from peritonitis. He and Abby discuss what to do with Douglas. Abby suggests keeping him, though Red thinks she’s being foolish. She stands her ground rather dramatically, and she tells Red as her shocked kids listen that she can’t bear to think of Douglas’s delicate stem of a neck being thrown to the wolves.
Though the Whitshanks neither adopt Douglas nor contact Social Services, they “look after” him, telling neighbors that they’re simply waiting for his mother to arrive. In time, the neighborhood views him as a Whitshank and he forgets about his father. He does well in school, and after graduating begins working with Red. He’s the child most like Red, which annoys Denny. Denny even asked Abby once if she ever thought about asking her own kids’ permission before “adopting” Stem.
Abby, Stem, and Nora wait for Red to wake to query him about Denny’s impromptu arrival. Abby and Nora are still figuring out cohabitation, as Abby wishes to continue being the matriarch while Nora assumes the role with ease. While the family plans lunch, Denny enters. His talks in a clipped tone, and eventually Stem, Nora, and Red leave. Abby then explains why everyone’s so worried, though she also tells Denny that she was only found outside in her nightgown because she went out to look at a felled tree. Since the lock on the front door sticks, she got locked out and no one heard her banging on the door. She then slept on the hammock and returned to the hole where the tree had been in the morning. Denny suggests she see a doctor, but Abby assures him she’s fine and that he doesn’t need to be home. Denny replies, “Same old same old” (131), and leaves the kitchen.
Abby often invites strangers, called orphans by the family, home. One of these orphans arrives for lunch, surprising everyone. The dour older woman, named Atta, has a thick accent and a strong dislike for Americans. The Whitshanks try engaging her in conversation, but her terse replies shut everyone down. Finally, Denny brings up one of Abby’s other orphans, a woman named B.J. Autry, whom he often criticized. Then he tells Atta that people are just “trying to be polite. They don’t much like you” (137). Atta, however, doesn’t seem to get that he’s judging her character. Meanwhile, Amanda’s husband, Hugh, gushes about the turkey he’s just carved. The family thinks him impractical, while Jeannie’s husband, also named Hugh, ranks high with the family because he’s a handyman. Abby comments on Elise being the first grandchild, but Denny quickly reminds them that his daughter Susan is the first. When Mrs. Angell (Jeannie’s Hugh’s mother), who has 13 grandkids, asks Atta if she has any, Atta once again cuts short the conversation by bluntly asking, “How would that be possible?” (140).
The Whitshanks relax on the porch when Atta leaves. Denny comments on Red’s health and expresses annoyance that he’s always left out of vital events. Mrs. Angell changes the subject skillfully by commenting on the weather. The Whitshanks’ porch is so spacious that it’s always shaded, and they use fans for the outside and inside because Red despises air-conditioning. They learn that Amanda’s Hugh is starting a new business called Do Not Pass Go. It’s a service for anxious travelers where he’ll do all the travel planning. Everyone thinks the concept comical, but Amanda supports him. Denny then reveals that he’s substitute teaching, which no one knew. Moreover, he finished college and has a degree, which is another shock. Everyone looks to Abby for a response, but she remains tightlipped and distant. Eventually, Red’s hearing issues, as well as Abby calling the dog Clarence, is noted by their children. When the family asks Denny when Susan will next visit, he suggests there’s no room for her since Stem and his family have moved in. The subject is finally dropped, and they relax in each other’s company as Abby relates the well-loved and oft told story of how she and Red fell in love.
While the first two chapters focus on parents worrying about their children, Chapters 3 and 4 explore children worrying about their parents. Now in their 70s, both Red and Abby suffer from old age. Abby’s blackouts suggest dementia, which, coupled with Red’s hearing loss, highlights a parallel between the house itself aging and the Whitshanks growing older. Red used to keep up with the house, but he’s no longer capable. Tyler openly portrays the house as a living, breathing member of the family. When Red and Abby’s children suggest moving away from the house, for instance, shock ensues. Red’s complaint that the house has a heart which needs nurturing underscores this connection. This suggestion also highlights the difference in generations. Though the children love the house, they think more in terms of quality of living. They’re not as bound to an idea of home that rests in a physical place. Abby and Red are of an older generation. To them, the house equals comfort and status. They define family and value via the house.
Stem’s origins appear in this section as well. When orphaned, the Whitshanks took him in because Abby felt sorry for him. This action harkens back to her social worker nature of wanting to help everyone, like the orphans she invites over. It also suggests that, despite the family’s clannishness, family can be defined by what one makes it. Stem is considered more Whitshank than Denny, He follows more in Red’s footsteps than Denny does. Despite his not being a Whitshank through blood, Stem symbolizes the ability to obtain something through their family value of patience, without resorting to envy or deceit, a striking contrast to the two family stories. Denny’s animosity towards Stem foreshadow that ghosts from their past will consume the Whitshanks and reveal a troubling depth hidden by their falsely calm exterior.
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By Anne Tyler