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From the start of Everything Sad is Untrue, stories become a persistent theme. Daniel opens his narration by thinking about his parents’ view on poets, knowing that the stories that he recounts aren’t exactly perfect, but that they are an amalgamation of the truth remembered and passed down. He knows stories have different versions, and poets are “just trying to remember six thousand years of history and all the versions of all stories ever told” (1). He also almost immediately uses 1,001 Nights as an example, recounting the tale of how Scheherazade was forced to marry a king who killed his bride each morning and how she would tire just before finishing a story so that the king would allow her to live another day.
For Daniel, who addresses his novel to his teacher, Mrs. Miller and to readers, he too is trying to maintain interest in his stories—both those of his arrival in the United States and his current life there. The reader is the king, and it is the readers Mrs. Miller’s favor he wishes to hold. Throughout the novel, he emphasizes the importance of this role, saying things like, “Reader, you are the king, so let me tell you, when Aziz married Hassan, the two were already in love and one of them was already destined to die” (70). This moment comes just before a transition, as if the morning has come and readers must allow Daniel to live to hear the end of the tale. He switches to another story, only to return later to detail what happened to Aziz and her new husband. It is a constant attempt to extend the attention he gets.
Daniel approaches his readers this way because he believes that stories can provide a way of connecting; a way of understanding. He also is himself trying to maintain his memories of his ancestry and his life in Iran, having traveled at such a young age to the United States. His mom even changed his name from Khosrou to Daniel so that it wouldn’t keep being mispronounced. In many ways, Daniel experiences an identity crisis and feels that he is so close to losing himself in this new life. He does not perfectly remember his life before, tallying the sparse memories of his grandparents and of those he encountered in refugee camps and struggling with the limitations of his memories of his father left behind in Iran. He recounts what he can to build a connection and to fortify these memories within himself.
Many of the stories that Daniel tells are sad stories. The bull dies. Aziz’s father, who she loves and adores, never returns, and her uncles take everything from her. Daniel and his family are forced to flee Iran, lest his mother be killed by the Komiteh. The family goes from a life of relative comfort to Daniel’s mother spending what little money she has so that her children might have pencils and erasers to use in the back of a homeschool classroom in which they are barely welcome.
Yet, there are glimpses of hope. Daniel is still able to talk to his father, and he makes a friend—a real friend—in Kyle, even if they are in different classes. There are moments in which people are brave, and Daniel offers his own definition of what bravery is, saying, “Does writing poetry make you brave? It is a good question to ask. I think making anything is a brave thing to do. Not like fighting brave, obviously. But a kind that looks at a horrible situation and doesn’t crumble” (122). His entire family is trying to make it through a horrible situation, and they are forced to persevere, despite how difficult it is, because they believe that it can be better.
Daniel’s mother is the clearest example of this: She is the one who “can’t be stopped. Not when you hit her. Not when a whole country full of goons puts her in a cage” (215). This amazes Daniel, and he feels guilt behind his mother’s decision to marry and then remarry Ray, because his sister constantly teases him that she did it so that he would have a father figure. His mother suffered every indignity in fleeing her relatively comfortable lifestyle in Iran to come to the United States. She has put up with everything, one trying situation after the other, and she emerged at the other side. He thinks that his mother gets through these trying times because of “[t]he anticipation that the God who listens in love will one day speak justice. […] The hope that some final fantasy will come to pass that will make everything sad untrue” (346). This is where the novel ultimately takes its name as well. It is in this hope that things will change. Ultimately, Daniel’s biggest lesson comes in thinking about this as the sacrifice that is made for happiness, that only after such hardship can one understand “the cost of joy” (351).
Daniel details the struggles he has connecting with his peers and the feelings of difference often present in immigrant narratives. He doesn’t think that most of his classmates believe him when he describes his family history and his life in Iran, thinking of him only as Other; as someone different from them. When he weaves stories throughout the novel, he recounts trying to share these with his peers, and his messages to his readers make very clear why Daniel does this: He believes that stories can provide a connection, that they can provide a way of showing that he is not so different. He wants so much for that connection, and he references it several times throughout the novel, believing that these stories are not only reinforcing his memory but also teaching his reader about him.
A recurring figure for hopeful connection in Daniel’s tales of the present is his crush, Kelly J. He knows that she thinks some of his stories are gross, and that it is unlikely that she will share his feelings. He thinks at one point that, “I want to stay in love with her until she realizes I am a person. It is a complicated thing that a little kid, or even a fifth grade, can’t understand, that we are always choosing situations that hurt us” (73). The downside of this desire to connect is that it is so often means that one does have to make compromises, make sacrifices of who they are so that the abyss of difference will seem smaller. He is aware of the sacrifices being made so that he can have a good life, especially through his mother’s decision to marry and remarry Ray, who abuses her.
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