Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?

The source material uses many pop culture references. Explore how Kaling fits into a contemporary context. How do these references help illustrate or reinforce key themes and ideas? Does the addition of pop culture references date the work or give it lasting relevance?

How does Kaling present her views on weight, body image, and a Hollywood standard of beauty? How have these topics changed or stayed the same since Kaling published the book in 2011?

The author emphasizes the importance of working hard, attending university, and devoting oneself to study to reach one’s goals. What other factors has Kaling overlooked or downplayed in presenting her story of success?

What are Kaling’s views on dating, relationships, and gender in the text? How do her views critique or reinforce gender stereotypes?

When Kaling struggled to find work in New York, she and her roommate Brenda made work for themselves by writing and starring in their own play. What can aspiring actors and writers learn from their approach?

What are Kaling’s critiques of Hollywood’s portrayals of women? What steps have been made in film media toward equity and inclusion? What still needs to be done?

What advice does Kaling offer about friendships? How did friendships impact her career and/or influence her sense of identity?

How has Kaling’s career and life changed since the writing of her initial memoir? How does this work compare to its sequel, Why Not Me? What are the differences and similarities between the two texts?