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Love is the central preoccupation of Magnolia Parks, but because the protagonists engage in sexual and romantic encounters with a variety of people, their interactions become increasingly complex and tangled. Within the context of the novel, love is portrayed as being inseparable from sexual attraction, and this dynamic becomes most apparent when Magnolia finds it impossible to have a purely platonic relationship with BJ. Part of the reason for her attachment, at least as she understands it, is that BJ was the first and, for a long time, the only person she had sex with. Although she engages in other kinds of sexual activity with Christian, Julian, and other boyfriends, her love for BJ prevents her from having intercourse with anyone else until her relationship with Tom matures to the point that she trusts him enough to show vulnerability with him. Likewise, BJ recognizes this vulnerability as a sign of Magnolia’s attachment to Tom and fears that she will choose Tom instead of him. He fears that at some point, Magnolia’s hurt and disappointment over his actions will eventually extinguish her love, while for his own part, BJ feels that his love for Magnolia is permanent.
As Magnolia alternates between various romantic interests, she reflects often on the concept of love and realizes that the search for love is her driving motivation. She believes in different kinds of love and muses, “I know that some love is beautiful, and some is freeing, some unravels you, some love poisons you, some blinds you, some betters you, and some loves break you in invisible ways” (344). Magnolia feels that her love for BJ carries an element of inevitability, and because she believes that the two of them are fated to remain connected, she sees their relationship as inescapable despite its toxicity. At one point, she explains this intensity by wondering if they simply came together when they were both too young and immature to handle such emotion.
The novel’s central question of how many loves a person gets in a lifetime is predicated on the assumption that someone can feel romantic, passionate, and sexual love for several people. As the many love triangles in the novel demonstrate, these loves for different people can exist at the same time. In Magnolia’s case, however, her driving motivation is not to feel or express love, but to be loved and cherished by others. This compulsion causes her to seek affection from numerous partners, and Tom and Christian both act as safety nets for her in the midst of her tumultuous dealings with BJ. However, although their devotion reassures her that she is loveable, her need for validation causes new complexities and conflicts; Tom and Christian are both hurt by her rejection, and BJ would prefer to be exclusive with Magnolia. Like Magnolia, BJ also seeks solace in the company of other people, but he does not see emotional attachment as a prerequisite for a sexual encounter, and this blasé attitude clashes sharply with Magnolia’s outlook and causes many of the conflicts that arise between them. Despite the many perspectives on romantic relationships that the novel offers, the subtext of the narrative implies that monogamy is the ideal version of a relationship, and this preconception is brought into relief through Magnolia and BJ’s reunion and the concluding break, when Magnolia learns the true extent of his infidelity.
Through references to the visibility and attention that Magnolia and her friends receive from the public, the novel employs popular conceptions of celebrity culture and lifestyles. Although Magnolia is aware that she is watched and that her actions are publicized, she has become adept enough at manipulation to make this visibility work in her favor. She often revels in opportunities to—as she puts it—dress up and be stared at, and this tendency reflects her underlying need for attention, validation, and approval. This dynamic becomes most evident in her behavior at social events, for she presents herself as a “gorgeous marshmallow” or “a fairy god-princess” (323). Her keen awareness of the full product lines of various designers also suggests that her standards are imbued with a fundamentally flawed superficiality, and as the novel progresses, she continues to place undue emphasis on importance of identifying herself with prestigious designers and luxury brands.
Magnolia is also aware of the quick, thoughtless judgment of the viewing public, and at one point, she deliberately uses this to her advantage when she divulges BJ’s infidelity to her neighbor. She knows that the public backlash will be swift and vocal, and she wants to punish BJ in as open an arena as possible. However, the detrimental effects of notoriety do not have material or lasting effects on either character, as paparazzi continue to follow them around. In a further satirical dig at the overexaggerated antics common to the celebrity sphere, the author crafts a scene in which Taura shows the irony of the narratives constructed by the gossip magazines. By kissing Magnolia and implying that the two of them are a couple, she deliberately influences the public narrative, and her action proves how easily one’s personal image can be manipulated.
While the costs of celebrity are not explored in great depth, the protagonists’ celebrity status serves as an occasional device and suggests that, for these characters, public notice is ubiquitous and largely irrelevant to their day-to-day lives. BJ is aware that he and his friends are referred to as the Billionaire Boys, and while he receives negative commentary in the wake of his infidelity, this setback does not impact his popularity or his self-image. BJ makes a living by capitalizing on the public interest in his life, leveraging his social media presence into modeling jobs, so a little extra notoriety ironically works in his favor. A friend of Tom’s refers to BJ as “[t]he Instagram one girls throw their knickers at” (284), which implies that his media presence, although superficially appealing, lacks substance and depth.
By contrast, Tom England is described as a celebrity with real weight and influence; he is friends with Prince William and is followed by the Tatler, the UK’s premier gossip magazine. Along with his profession and his maturity, these attributes indicate that he enjoys a more substantial version of celebrity and influence that eludes Magnolia’s clique and the Billionaire Boys, who are all more concerned with their social and romantic lives. However, Tom initiates the “foxhole” relationship with Magnolia to divert public attention away from his own growing attachment to his sister-in-law, Clara, which suggests that he also harbors a fine-tuned awareness of his own public image and still sometimes succumbs to playing superficial games in order to preserve his reputation.
In concert with an examination of love, the novel also explores the theme of loyalty, as expressed through relationships with sexual partners, family members, and friends. The novel suggests that love demands and indeed requires loyalty; by extension, the betrayal of that attachment is understood to cause deep-seated damage from which the relationship in question may never recover. The most prominent example of this dynamic can be seen in the wildly erratic interactions between BJ and Magnolia. BJ views his love for Magnolia as a version of loyalty that will survive even him, and he asserts that Magnolia is “the girl of [his] dreams, love of [his] life, alpha, omega, beginning and end” (329). However, the chief conflict of the novel arises because this passionate expression of loyalty to Magnolia does not include sexual fidelity, and BJ’s sexual promiscuity is a betrayal that she simply cannot accept. Although Magnolia acknowledges that a person may have many loves in a lifetime, BJ’s lack of sexual fidelity is the most consistent stumbling block that prevents her from fully engaging in a relationship with him. His actions also have a negative impact on her own self-worth, for she believes that BJ’s interest in other women indicates a fundamental lack on her part, and this dynamic compels her retreat from him. However, when he kisses her, the resulting sexual attraction overcomes her well-founded fears about trust and vulnerability.
Thus, the theme of love often segues into related themes of betrayal. For example, Magnolia uses Tom to hurt BJ, even going so far as to inform BJ that she has had sex with Tom. While she sits in the cockpit with Tom on the flight back from Greece even though she is fully aware that BJ desires her company, she ironically expects BJ to accept her relationship with Tom even though she does not accept his liaisons with other women. This hypocrisy also extends to her relationships with others, surfacing once again in her outrage over the discovery that her father is having an affair with Marsaili, her nanny and confidante. Magnolia views this development as a betrayal of her own mother and becomes utterly disillusioned by this transgression on the part of the woman who was her primary mother figure. Her sense of betrayal is further amplified by her anger over Marsaili’s advice that Magnolia refuse to resume her relationship with BJ after he cheated on her. However, by blaming Marsaili for her own decision not to forgive BJ, Magnolia fails to take responsibility for her own decisions.
Ultimately, Marsaili’s true “betrayal” can be found in the fact that her affair makes Magnolia realizes that she is not the most important person in Marsaili’s world; for a person as self-absorbed as Magnolia, this proves to be a crushing discovery. Magnolia’s core need is to find and rely upon someone who will be completely devoted to her above all others. Toward the end of the novel, BJ finally seems to offer this, but when she learns that he cheated with Paili and both of them kept this information from her, she is so completely shattered that her only recourse is to attempt a complete escape from the situation, hence her impulsive trip to Heathrow Airport. In her mind, BJ’s betrayal is deep enough to fracture her friend group and her found family, and her extreme reaction suggests that loyalty is even more important to her than love.
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